{"id":112778,"date":"2023-08-14T13:37:06","date_gmt":"2023-08-14T13:37:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/?p=112778"},"modified":"2023-08-14T13:37:06","modified_gmt":"2023-08-14T13:37:06","slug":"uzman-onerdi-teknoloji-bagimliliginin-bozdugu-evlilikler-icin-tavsiyeler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/?p=112778","title":{"rendered":"Uzman \u00f6nerdi: Teknoloji ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n bozdu\u011fu evlilikler i\u00e7in tavsiyeler"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span><span><span><span>\u00c7ift terapileri yapan psikoterapist Elaine Kasket, son 15 y\u0131ll\u0131k terapi s\u00fcrecini g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irdi\u011finde g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc t\u00fcm \u00e7iftlerin d\u00f6rtte \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn\u00fcn en az\u0131ndan bir telefon y\u00fcz\u00fcnden sorun ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcrkiye\u2019deki Ni\u011fde \u00d6mer Halisdemir \u00dcniversitesi\u2019nden ara\u015ft\u0131rmac\u0131lar\u0131n, 712 evli insan \u00fczerinde yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131rmaya at\u0131fta bulunan Kasket, ili\u015fkide partnere \u00f6zen g\u00f6stermek yerine telefonla ilgilenmenin ili\u015fkideki samimiyet, g\u00fcven ve \u00f6zg\u00fcven duygular\u0131n\u0131 azaltt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve ileriki seviyelerde ili\u015fkiye \u00f6l\u00fcmc\u00fcl bir darbe indirebilece\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n<p>Phubbing olarak tan\u0131mlanan yeni nesil tabir, insanlar\u0131n ak\u0131ll\u0131 telefonlar\u0131na g\u00f6m\u00fcl\u00fcp yan\u0131ndakilerle ilgilenmemesi anlam\u0131na geliyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ara\u015ft\u0131rma ekibi de, bu olgunun \u201cg\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn teknolojik olarak geli\u015fmi\u015f toplumlar\u0131nda yayg\u0131n olarak g\u00f6zlemlendi\u011fini\u201d ve \u201cevlilikteki \u00e7at\u0131\u015fman\u0131n \u00e7o\u011funlukla insanlar\u0131n de\u011fer verdikleri ki\u015filer taraf\u0131ndan g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edildi\u011finde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131\u201d s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n<p><b>KAR\u015eIDAK\u0130 K\u0130\u015e\u0130 DI\u015eLANMI\u015e H\u0130SSED\u0130YOR<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span>\u015ea\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 olmayan bir \u015fekilde, \u201cpartner phubbing\u201d, e\u015fler aras\u0131nda daha fazla k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, azalan konu\u015fma kalitesi ve depresyon ile ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. E\u015finin telefonunda olup bitenlerden haberdar olmayan, kendini d\u0131\u015flanm\u0131\u015f hisseden ki\u015filer, dikkatlerini da\u011f\u0131tmak i\u00e7in pes edip kendi cihazlar\u0131na d\u00f6nebilir ve bu da \u00e7iftlerin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 kopukluk sarmal\u0131na yol a\u00e7abilir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span><span><span><span>Psikoterapiste g\u00f6re, telefonuna fazla g\u00f6m\u00fclen ki\u015filer, e\u015fleriyle do\u011frudan ileti\u015fim kuracak kadar cesur olmad\u0131klar\u0131 mesaj\u0131n\u0131 iletmek i\u00e7in cihazlar\u0131n\u0131 kullan\u0131yor olabilirler.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Bununla beraber Kasket, insanlar\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc kadar \u00e7aresiz olmad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ve hem teknolojiyle hem de onu kullanan insanlarla olan ili\u015fkiyi \u015fekillendirme g\u00fcc\u00fcne sahip olduklar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. Uzmana g\u00f6re; sorunu kabul etmek, s\u0131n\u0131rlar \u00e7izmek ve dikkati ba\u015fka y\u00f6ne da\u011f\u0131tmak gibi y\u00f6ntemler m\u00fccadele i\u00e7in \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131yor.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Alan\u0131nda uzman bir psikoterapist ve siber psikolog, teknolojinin son derece \u00f6n planda bir d\u00fcnyada evlili\u011finizi nas\u0131l tekrar d\u00fczene oturtaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131za dair tavsiyelerde bulundu.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":112779,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[500,222],"class_list":["post-112778","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yasam","tag-insan","tag-telefon"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/112778","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=112778"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/112778\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":112780,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/112778\/revisions\/112780"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/112779"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=112778"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=112778"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=112778"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}