Tarih\u00e7i Prof. Dr. \u0130lber Ortayl\u0131, Kayseri B\u00fcy\u00fck\u015fehir Belediyesi taraf\u0131ndan d\u00fczenlenen 5. Kayseri Kitap Fuar\u0131 kapsam\u0131nda s\u00f6yle\u015fiye kat\u0131ld\u0131.<\/b><\/p>\n
\u0130lber Ortayl\u0131, Erciyes K\u00fclt\u00fcr Merkezi\u2019nde d\u00fczenlenen s\u00f6yle\u015fide, her yerde aile yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemli oldu\u011fundan bahsetti\u011fini aktard\u0131.<\/p>\n
Gen\u00e7lerin s\u00f6zlerinin dinlenmemesinden yak\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatan Ortayl\u0131, \u201cK\u00f6y\u00fcn aile i\u00e7i yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczenleyememi\u015fiz. Evin ihtiyarlar\u0131, gen\u00e7leri dinlemiyor. Hi\u00e7bir \u015fekilde dinlemiyor ve huylar\u0131 buna m\u00fcsait de\u011fil.\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
\u201cT\u00dcRK A\u0130LES\u0130 PAR\u00c7ALANIYOR\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Bu durumun k\u00f6yde de\u011fil, \u015fehirde de ayn\u0131 oldu\u011funu dile getiren Ortayl\u0131, \u015f\u00f6yle konu\u015ftu:<\/p>\n * \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n hepsinin \u015fikayeti \u015fu, \u2018geliyoruz, \u00f6\u011freniyoruz, Avrupa\u2019da okuduk, birtak\u0131m tekliflerimiz, \u00f6nerilerimiz var babam\u0131z\u0131n m\u00fcessesesini geli\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in bizi dinlemiyor, etraf\u0131ndaki menajerleri dinliyor.\u2019 diyorlar. Yani siz sonunda o a\u011fac\u0131n dallar\u0131yla devam etmek zorundas\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n * Nesiller aras\u0131 \u00e7at\u0131\u015fma y\u00fcz\u00fcnden insanlar k\u00f6yleri terk ediyorlar. Bu ciddi bir \u015fey. T\u00fcrk ailesi par\u00e7alan\u0131yor. Par\u00e7alanman\u0131n nedeni ne? B\u00f6yle dar bir gelirle buna nas\u0131l cesaret ediyorsun? 3 neslin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir evde, bir kere \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc terbiye de\u011fi\u015fik olur. Pi\u015fen yemek, yap\u0131lanlar farkl\u0131 olur. Temizlik farkl\u0131 olur. Buna tahamm\u00fcl edemiyorlar.<\/p>\n \u201c\u00c7OK YANLI\u015e TEOR\u0130LER VAR\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n Her toplumun kendine ait adetleri oldu\u011funu vurgulayan Ortayl\u0131, \u201c\u00c7ok yanl\u0131\u015f teoriler var. \u00c7ekirdek aile. \u0130\u015fte ailenin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, kad\u0131n\u0131n ve gen\u00e7lerin \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, bunlar iyi g\u00fczel de yani her zaman da ge\u00e7erli sloganlar de\u011fil. Her toplumun kendi adeti de\u011fil. Siz bu toplumda 16 ya\u015f\u0131na gelen \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in \u2018hadi art\u0131k sana yeterince bakt\u0131k, git ekme\u011fini bul\u2019 diye bir lafa maruz kalaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor musunuz? Herkes \u00e7ocu\u011funa sonuna kadar sahip \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor, b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcyor.\u201d ifadelerini kulland\u0131. (AA)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Tarih\u00e7i Prof. Dr. \u0130lber Ortayl\u0131, Kayseri B\u00fcy\u00fck\u015fehir Belediyesi taraf\u0131ndan d\u00fczenlenen 5. Kayseri Kitap Fuar\u0131 kapsam\u0131nda s\u00f6yle\u015fiye kat\u0131ld\u0131. \u0130lber …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":43052,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[27],"tags":[1079,8092],"class_list":["post-43051","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kultur-sanat","tag-aile","tag-ortayli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43051","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=43051"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43051\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":43053,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43051\/revisions\/43053"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/43052"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=43051"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=43051"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=43051"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}