{"id":97816,"date":"2023-06-13T11:51:05","date_gmt":"2023-06-13T11:51:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/?p=97816"},"modified":"2023-06-13T11:51:05","modified_gmt":"2023-06-13T11:51:05","slug":"gelinlik-savasi-sosyal-medyada-olay-oldu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/?p=97816","title":{"rendered":"Gelinlik sava\u015f\u0131 sosyal medyada olay oldu"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pek \u00e7ok ki\u015fi i\u00e7in d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn denilince akan sular durur. Bu \u00f6zel g\u00fcn i\u00e7in aylar \u00f6nce haz\u0131rlanmaya ba\u015flan\u0131r. Hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcphesiz bu haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131n en \u00f6zeli de gelinlik\u2026 Bir gelin aday\u0131 da d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u0131ras\u0131nda ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 anlatarak sosyal medya kullan\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n dikkatini \u00e7ekti.<\/p>\n<p>27 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir kad\u0131n, Reddit\u2019te kuzeniyle girdi\u011fi gelinlik sava\u015f\u0131n\u0131 detaylar\u0131yla yazd\u0131. Gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n, tart\u0131\u015fma forumuna, 28 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki kuzeninin \u00e7ok daha \u00f6nceden planlam\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden sadece bir hafta \u00f6ncesinde d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yapmaya karar verdi\u011fini ve yetmezmi\u015f gibi gelinli\u011finin ayn\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yazd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130simsiz Reddit kullan\u0131c\u0131s\u0131, son birka\u00e7 ayd\u0131r gelinlik arad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve sonunda buldu\u011funu anlat\u0131rken, teyzesinin de bu arada annesinden, en son karar verilen gelinli\u011fin videosunu istedi\u011fini yazd\u0131. Gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n, sadece birka\u00e7 hafta sonra r\u00fcya elbisesi i\u00e7in depozito \u00f6dedi\u011fi gelinlik buti\u011finden bir telefon ald\u0131:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKuzenim ve annesinin, benim elbisemin videosuyla d\u00fckkanlar\u0131na geldiklerini ve tam olarak buna benzer bir \u015fey almak istediklerini s\u00f6ylemi\u015fler. Ve sonunda bende beyaz\u0131 olan elbisenin, krem rengini alm\u0131\u015flar.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><b>A\u0130LES\u0130, \u201cA\u015eIRI TEPK\u0130 G\u00d6STER\u0130YORSUN\u201d DED\u0130<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131n, art\u0131k elbiseyi giymek istemedi\u011fini ma\u011fazan\u0131n kendisine para iadesi teklif etti\u011fini anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n, ilk payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fcncelleyerek yeni bir elbise buldu\u011funu yazarken bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te defalarca kuzenine ula\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da belirtti. Ancak, konuyla ilgili olarak kuzenine ula\u015fma giri\u015fimlerinin, kuzeninin d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcnden \u00f6nceki geceye kadar reddedildi\u011fini iddia etti:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSon derece incinmi\u015ftim ve d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn benimkinden \u00f6nce oldu\u011funu, yani herkesin onu benden \u00f6nce g\u00f6rece\u011fi anlam\u0131na geldi\u011fini bile bile neden benim gelinli\u011fimi \u00e7almak i\u00e7in elinden geleni yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sordum.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bununla birlikte kad\u0131n, ailesinin a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 tepki g\u00f6sterdi\u011fini ve konuyu a\u00e7mak i\u00e7in kuzeninin d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcne kadar beklemesi gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yledi\u011fini de belirtti. Ancak gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n\u0131n yazd\u0131klar\u0131ndan sonra platformdaki pek \u00e7ok kullan\u0131c\u0131 ona destek oldu.<\/p>\n<p>Bir kullan\u0131c\u0131; \u201cBen d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcnden nefret eden d\u00fcz s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 bir adam\u0131m. Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 benim i\u00e7in a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a yanl\u0131\u015fsa, o zaman olduk\u00e7a k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr\u201d diye yazarken, bir di\u011feri \u2018Vay. Kuzeninin ve teyzenin sana yapt\u0131klar\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten i\u011fren\u00e7! Kuzeninin seninle eski bir sava\u015f\u0131 m\u0131 var?\u2019 diye yazd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131n ise \u201cBir rekabet varsa kesinlikle tek tarafl\u0131d\u0131r\u2026 Ben hep onun i\u00e7in \u00e7aba sarf etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m ama b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcnce ve dinami\u011fimizin ne kadar tuhaf oldu\u011funu anlay\u0131nca eskisi kadar \u00e7aba g\u00f6stermeyi b\u0131rakt\u0131m\u201d diye cevap vererek kuzeniyle olan mesafeli ili\u015fkisine dikkat \u00e7ekti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bir gelin aday\u0131n\u0131n sosyal medyadaki payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 olay oldu. Gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 yaparken hayat\u0131n\u0131n \u015fokunu ya\u015fad\u0131.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":97817,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[614,4665,5260,209,12388],"class_list":["post-97816","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yasam","tag-dugun","tag-elbise","tag-gelin","tag-kadin","tag-kuzeninin"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97816","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=97816"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97816\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":97818,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97816\/revisions\/97818"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/97817"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=97816"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=97816"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/haberulus.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=97816"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}